Monday, May 6, 2013

my last day at Crossover

Today was my last day visiting Crossover. It was quite the celebration. We were welcomed once again like heroes (and it never gets old)! Once we arrived, Dave took us to meet the chief of the village that Crossover is in. And lo and behold, he is a trojan fan! Fight on!!





After the formalities of meeting the Chief & his 3 wives, Jim I were treated to a traditional song & dance that lasted about 45 minutes. Some very cool dancing (see clip below).



Next, lunch was served. As I mentioned in my last post, Jim was able to coordinate a snack bar at the debate held at Pegasus school and the proceeds bought a lunch, actually a feast for today. The kids couldnt believe they were actually going to eat chicken, they were so happy and appreciative! They actually ate until they were full, which never happens at Crossover. Just too many kids and not enough money. Just before lunch was served, they put Jim & I in traditional chief garb, which really excited everyone.

 


After lunch, Jim, Dave & I met with the contractor again. We went thru the needs of the school and prioritized them. It will likely cost about $200k USD to build 2 structures: (1) a dormitory for the boys & girls; and (2) a building with 8 classrooms and a kitchen and mess hall. We hope to have plans drawn up shortly. Jim & I decided to name the 501c Wings for Crossover and our goal will be to raise enough money to pay for the structures and to provide internet access for the school. We are still working on some solutions for internet access, which is not easy given the remoteness of Crossover. After meeting with the contractor, we passed out the tshirts generously donated by Ei-Lo and Eddy Chavez. See the clip below. Thanks again Eddy!!

 

Then, it started raining...hard. And the temperature dropped about 30 degrees, from 95'ish to somewhere in the 60's. To you and me, rain just means outdoor activities are curtailed. You grab an umbrella or stay indoors. It means something very different to Crossover.

 It didn't really hit me until we left Crossover but I started thinking about all those young kids. And I thought about how tonight, they would be forced to sleep outdoors, under a thatched roof that leaks. on the muddy ground with no blankets. on top of all that they have no parents to comfort them. I couldnt stop thinking, what if it was Jacob or Savannah? It just tore me up to think of those poor kids who just dont have that parent there to help comfort them when its wet and cold. It's that combination of no real shelter AND no parents that makes their situation so devastating to think about. it starts to make a lot more sense why the little ones follow Jim & I around so much, grabbing our hands at every chance they get. They just want to be loved and touched and cared for. they want attention because with 250 kids, and only 8 teachers and no parents, they just dont get that attention that all kids crave. When you think about it being your own kids in that situation, it really hits home. This is why I am here and this is why I will do what I can to help them. 

 The truth is Crossover is just one school/orphanage, in one village, in one region in one country on one continent. It starts to get really overwhelming when you think about how much poverty there is in the world. But like Jenny said to me, you can't let yourself get overwhelmed by the magnitude of the problem. Focus on a detail, something you can make a difference with. So that is what we will do.

 

Sunday, May 5, 2013

blog stats

I just checked the blog stats and I am floored! check out the different countries that have viewed the blog! if you have forwarded the link out to any of these places, thank you! stay tuned to the blog tomorrow...should be a doozy, it will be my last visit with Crossover and likely to be an emotional one. There was a snack bar at the Pegasus debate yesterday (and yes, Pegasus won) and the snack bar raise about $300, all of which is being used for a feast tomorrow, enough chicken & rice for the kids to get seconds (and thirds if they are still hungry)!

more pics & video

Crossover students after their bread & Nutella treat
Baboons on the side of the road driving from Accra to Akosombo

This is the computer lab/library/equipment room/Dave's office.  


This was one of my little helpers...he demanded he carry my water bottle around for me all day

 This is the Crossover student body singing "Peg-A-SOOS"...Pegasus is Crossover's sister school in Huntington Beach, CA., where Jim Conti is a teacher/debate coach/star, and where my son Jacob goes to school
 This is the girls "dorm".  My stupid question "There are 120 girls at Crossover, I only see like 20 mats, why is that?"  Dave's response "No, no, 5 or 6 girls can fit on each mat."  Wow
Cute little guys in the classroom/boys dorm


This is my daughter, Savannah, whose team took second place last night in their dance competition!  So sorry I missed it Savannah!!
Sorry, First place, taking home the GOLD!!  and the hardware to prove it







Saturday, May 4, 2013

a few random observations

Ghana has some TERRIBLE drivers on the road.  Scratch that, most are terrible.  passing when they shouldnt, etc.  However, there is ZERO road rage.  maybe it has something to do with the fact that everyone is late to everything so no one seems to be in a hurry to get anywhere (although I guess that conflicts with the speeding).  The roads are terrible, full of potholes, paved roads randomly turn to dirt.

People also freely litter here.  The sides of the road are lined with plastic, trash, etc.  Another reminder of how nice it is to live in the U.S.

Funerals here in Ghana are a 2 day celebration.  Entire towns turn out for a funeral, everyone dressed in red and/or black, streets are blocked with pedestrian processions, causing more traffic.

Everyone waves here.  Maybe its the rarity of seeing a couple of white guys (yeyvu) but every town we passed we were greeted with lots of waves and smiles.

In the little towns we passed, all of which are poverty stricken, the buildings and edifices are half built, no roofs, many made of brick (otherwise cinderblock).

As expected, lots of street vendors of food, stuff like snails, plastic bags of water (seems only the tourists drink bottles of water...the locals bite off a corner of the bag and drink it), maize dough, wierd turkey meat.  And pretty much everything is carried on their heads.

Lighter day (emotionally)

Today was a much lighter day on the emotions...Dave (the founder of Crossover) has a 17 year old daughter (Sonia) that goes to a private girls high school in the city of Ho.  They have visiting hours on the first Saturday of each month so we went to visit her.  Sonia is also the penpal of Jim's 11 year old daughter, Mia, so it was a very special visit for him (pictured below, left to right is Juliette, Sonia's best friend, Jim, Sonia and Dave).


After we visited Sonia, we drove about an hour to a Monkey Reserve...pretty cool video here posted to youtube

and a pic...



After the Monkey Reserve, we had a long drive back to the hotel, but stopped at tthe 2nd highest point in Ghana for a quick break



Friday, May 3, 2013

Day 2 at Crossover

So Jim & I decided to take a boat to Crossover today instead of a car.  We left from Akosombo where we are staying and it took about an hour by boat...click on this video to see our welcome party, another unbelievable welcome!


After arriving, we went back to the "classroom" because I had a few more things to give out:  the rest of the tshirts that Eddy & EI-LO donated, 2 lacrosse sticks, and a suitcase full of food I brought from Costco: Cheez-its, Famous Amos cookies, Nutella, Boysenberry Jam and a few other treats.  When we got there, Jim & I bought 50 loaves of fresh bread from the adjacent town (called Djemini).  Each kid got a cookie and a slice of bread with either jam or nutella on it.  WOW.  most of the kids had never had a cookie and the look on their faces when they took that first bite was priceless!

After the kids ate, Jim & I took individual pictures of each kid...when we create our 501c charitable organization we will create a website and post each picture along with their names and a little blurb that they will write about themselves.  Should be pretty neat.  Here is a pic of lacrosse making it to Africa
Jim & I also met with a contractor/builder today, which was interesting.  Just doing some diligence on costs involved in building a structure for the kids to sleep in as well as a classroom(s).

The rest of the day was spent just hanging out, which was really nice.  We played basketball, lacrosse, etc.  It's funny, the little ones just followed us around, we would walk to grab a water, about 15 little ones are in tow, just wanting to be with you.  They thrive on human contact, just touching a shoulder or holding a hand, they look up at you w those eyes that just kills you!  I don't think they get much nuturing or human contact.
The last thing we did before returning ot the hotel was watch a soccer match.  The kids were all in their new jerseys.  Notice the dirt/rocky field and note that about half of the kids played barefoot.  Perspective

This last pic is the kids watching a video of themselves on Jim's iPad.  They thought it was HILARIOUS!!